An old man saw a scorpion drowning and decided to pull it out of water. He calmly extended his hand to reach the creature . when he did the scorpion stung him, with the effect of the pain, the old man left the creature and it fell back into the water.
The man realizing that the scorpion was drowning again got back and tried to rescue it but then again it stung him . He let go of it again.
A young boy standing by approached the old man and said excuse me sir, you are going to hurt yourself trying to help save the evil vicious creature, why do you insist? Don't you realize that each time you try to help the scorpion, it will sting you?" then the man replied," the nature of the scorpion is to sting and mine is to help. Stinging me will not make me to change my mind" so the man thought for a while and used a leaf from a nearby tree and pulled the scorpion out from the water and saved its life.
Moral Lesson:
Do not change your nature if someone hurt you. Just take precautions. Some pursue happiness while others create it. Let your conscience be guide in whatever you do.
NOTE:
When life present you with a thousand reason to cry, show it you have a million reason to smile. More importantly, always be the reason to the smile.
Am Leaving You With These:
1.Hate has four letters words,so does love;
2.Enemies have seven, so does friends;
3.Lying has five, so does Truth;
4.Hurt has four, so does Heal;
5.Negative has Eight, so does positive;
6.Failure has seven, so does success;
7.Under has five, so does above;
Is all these by coincidence????
Saturday 24 May 2014
Wednesday 14 May 2014
Violence
IS VIOLENCE THE ANSWER TO OUR PROBLEM?
"I object to violence because when it appears to do good,the good is temporary; the evil it does is permanent" (Mahatma Gaudhi).
It is a well known fact that whatever venture or carrier one intends to pursue in life, it can only flourish where peace exist, where violence is the order of the day, catastrophe loom, violence, at its most basic level can be defined as the use of physical force or the probable threat of such force proposed to physically harm a person or group. Where the use of power and threat of power is by one group over another, it is called institutional violence; otherwise it is referred to as interpersonal violence. Men's domination over women by subjugating them to second class status is also a form violence. The domination of one ethnic group by another, or one social class over another can and should be called violence. But for the purpose of this essay our focal point is interpersonal violence particularly among young people. It is essential to state that violence is not an accidental act; it happens only in explicit situation and settings than others, and it is more likely to be carried out by and against men usually young men.
In public sphere, young men are most likely to be perpetrator of this violence and most likely to be victims. In the private sphere the home and other private spaces men are more likely the aggressors and women, the victims.
Researcher on the causes of violence has been carried out by several Researchers, but what is often found out of this debate is the fact that men,and particularly young men are more likely to use violence than any other groups.
There is a widespread belief that violence is naturally part of being a man. We also sometimes hear the argument that being violence is a "Natural" or "Normal" part of boy's growing up and that most boys grow out of it.However I make bold affirm that boy's and men's violence is not natural. It is not inherent nor an essential part of boy's and biological makeup. This is in spite of the fact that violence may sometimes be a valid response for protecting oneself or others but it is not "Natural" or "Normal".
Violence is a learned behavior, and is learned and repeated more by some young men in their locality; and the truth of the matter is, it can be unlearned and prevented. Waiting for boys to "grow out" of violence behavior is not an appropriate or realistic response to violence. Let's ask ourselves the following question to validate my argument in the proceeding paragraph. Why are some young men violent and others are not? It is not at all young men who are violent! Certainly, there are factors that make some young men more likely to use violence.
To a very limited extent Biology may be involved.In a research conducted by Miedzian in the year 1991, titled "Boys will be boys! Breaking the link between masculinity and violence" published in the Theory and Research in Behavioral pediatric, Vol.5, he found out there are some biological differences between boys and girls in terms of temperament, with boys having higher rate of lack of impulse control, sensation-seeking,react ability and irriirritability. Traits that may be precursors to violent behavior. Despite the biological factor, environment also play a considerable influence in that regard. The question now is; what is the way out?
Suggest/answer or ask questions, the way out of this unwanted situation. I'm for a concerted effort to be fashion out between the parents < at home>, Teacher< at school> counselors < at school/counseling centers> and Religious leaders < at churches/Mosque/ shrine>. Even though the violent behavior of this vulnerable set of people, young men cannot be eliminated entirely, it can at least be brought to a tolerable level, for peace and tranquility to triumph.
"I object to violence because when it appears to do good,the good is temporary; the evil it does is permanent" (Mahatma Gaudhi).
It is a well known fact that whatever venture or carrier one intends to pursue in life, it can only flourish where peace exist, where violence is the order of the day, catastrophe loom, violence, at its most basic level can be defined as the use of physical force or the probable threat of such force proposed to physically harm a person or group. Where the use of power and threat of power is by one group over another, it is called institutional violence; otherwise it is referred to as interpersonal violence. Men's domination over women by subjugating them to second class status is also a form violence. The domination of one ethnic group by another, or one social class over another can and should be called violence. But for the purpose of this essay our focal point is interpersonal violence particularly among young people. It is essential to state that violence is not an accidental act; it happens only in explicit situation and settings than others, and it is more likely to be carried out by and against men usually young men.
In public sphere, young men are most likely to be perpetrator of this violence and most likely to be victims. In the private sphere the home and other private spaces men are more likely the aggressors and women, the victims.
Researcher on the causes of violence has been carried out by several Researchers, but what is often found out of this debate is the fact that men,and particularly young men are more likely to use violence than any other groups.
There is a widespread belief that violence is naturally part of being a man. We also sometimes hear the argument that being violence is a "Natural" or "Normal" part of boy's growing up and that most boys grow out of it.However I make bold affirm that boy's and men's violence is not natural. It is not inherent nor an essential part of boy's and biological makeup. This is in spite of the fact that violence may sometimes be a valid response for protecting oneself or others but it is not "Natural" or "Normal".
Violence is a learned behavior, and is learned and repeated more by some young men in their locality; and the truth of the matter is, it can be unlearned and prevented. Waiting for boys to "grow out" of violence behavior is not an appropriate or realistic response to violence. Let's ask ourselves the following question to validate my argument in the proceeding paragraph. Why are some young men violent and others are not? It is not at all young men who are violent! Certainly, there are factors that make some young men more likely to use violence.
To a very limited extent Biology may be involved.In a research conducted by Miedzian in the year 1991, titled "Boys will be boys! Breaking the link between masculinity and violence" published in the Theory and Research in Behavioral pediatric, Vol.5, he found out there are some biological differences between boys and girls in terms of temperament, with boys having higher rate of lack of impulse control, sensation-seeking,react ability and irriirritability. Traits that may be precursors to violent behavior. Despite the biological factor, environment also play a considerable influence in that regard. The question now is; what is the way out?
Suggest/answer or ask questions, the way out of this unwanted situation. I'm for a concerted effort to be fashion out between the parents < at home>, Teacher< at school> counselors < at school/counseling centers> and Religious leaders < at churches/Mosque/ shrine>. Even though the violent behavior of this vulnerable set of people, young men cannot be eliminated entirely, it can at least be brought to a tolerable level, for peace and tranquility to triumph.
Friday 25 April 2014
Sad News
Barcelona have announced that their former coach Tito Vilanova has died,aged ,45,following his long term battle with cancer. The former Nou camp boss underwent surgery to remove a tumour in his throat in November 2011,only to suffer a relapse in December 2012. He left his position at the calatan club last July to continue his treatment, but was last night admitted to hospital and has now passed away. Barcelona president Josep Maria Bartomeu has paid tribute to Vilanova on Twitter saying;"Tito Vilanova was a wonderful person,and will never be forgotten at Fc Barcelona.
Thank you for everything you taught us.Rest in Peace".
The Fc Barcelona is in immense mourning.
Tito Vilanova has died at the age of 45. may he rest in peace.
Thank you for everything you taught us.Rest in Peace".
The Fc Barcelona is in immense mourning.
Tito Vilanova has died at the age of 45. may he rest in peace.
Thursday 24 April 2014
Bad mood(Mourinho)!
Mourinho said.I would play with the players that are not going to play on Wednesday.This is not a decision the Manager can make on his own.I'm just a piece in the big club and I have to go with the decision we make collectively." If the club decides to go with everything in the direction of the champions league ,I'm ready for that .We have a big match that can give Chelsea another Champions league final".Chelsea will be without goalkeeper Petr Cech for the rest of the season after he suffered a shoulder injury against Atletico ,while John Terry campaign could be over after the captain limped off with a foot problem .Chelsea's 2-1 defeat to Sunderland last weekend means ever a win at Anfield would not be enough to prevent Liverpool from securing their first league title in years should Rodgers' team win their other two remaining games. Mourinho , moody before the Atletico game and sarcastic about premier league refereeing last weekend ,is unhappy that the match against is schedule for Sunday and remains in combative mode.
"When the premier league decide to put that Liverpool game on Sunday ,when Liverpool refuse to play on a Saturday ,it is a decision I have to make with the club,if the club wants to go with everything in direction of the champions league I am ready for that,"he said."The premier league should (fight for our match to be played on Saturday ).We have a big match on Wednesday .We ask,we ask and we asked again to play on the Saturday. I know what I would do,but I'm not the club .I have to speak with the club.
"When the premier league decide to put that Liverpool game on Sunday ,when Liverpool refuse to play on a Saturday ,it is a decision I have to make with the club,if the club wants to go with everything in direction of the champions league I am ready for that,"he said."The premier league should (fight for our match to be played on Saturday ).We have a big match on Wednesday .We ask,we ask and we asked again to play on the Saturday. I know what I would do,but I'm not the club .I have to speak with the club.
Jose Mourinho
Mourinho:Cech and Terry Premier league season over
ESPN Staff
Giggs ruled out of running/Mourinho heads for title race now
Petr Cech feel awkwardly and immediately grabbed his right arm just 16 minutes into Chelsea's draw with Atletico Madrid @Gelly Images.
Jose Mourinho has confirmed Petr Cech and John Terry will miss the rest of the premier league season after they both suffered injury in Chelsea's Champions league semifinal first leg draw at Atletico Madrid
Cech dislocated his shoulder while Captain Terry suffered a foot injury at Estadio Vicente Calderon.Both were substituted,before Mourinho stated his side would have to reach the final if Terry was to play again this season .Mourinho told sky Italia: Peter Cech's season is over .Don't ask me technically, but season over .And John we have to play the final for him to play with us".The injuries spoilt what was a prize draw for Mourinho's side,who host Atletico in the return leg at Stamford Bridge next Wednesday. First, though,Chelsea must travel to Liverpool on Sunday for premier league title clash with league leaders Liverpool.
Eden Hazard is also a doubt for the trip to Anfield;the midfielder travelled with Chelsea squad to Madrid,but was not named in the starting lineup or on the bench .He suffered a calf injury in the quarter-final second leg win against PSG.
Samuel Eto'o was ruled out of the draw with Atletico with a knee injury.
ESPN Staff
Giggs ruled out of running/Mourinho heads for title race now
Petr Cech feel awkwardly and immediately grabbed his right arm just 16 minutes into Chelsea's draw with Atletico Madrid @Gelly Images.
Jose Mourinho has confirmed Petr Cech and John Terry will miss the rest of the premier league season after they both suffered injury in Chelsea's Champions league semifinal first leg draw at Atletico Madrid
Cech dislocated his shoulder while Captain Terry suffered a foot injury at Estadio Vicente Calderon.Both were substituted,before Mourinho stated his side would have to reach the final if Terry was to play again this season .Mourinho told sky Italia: Peter Cech's season is over .Don't ask me technically, but season over .And John we have to play the final for him to play with us".The injuries spoilt what was a prize draw for Mourinho's side,who host Atletico in the return leg at Stamford Bridge next Wednesday. First, though,Chelsea must travel to Liverpool on Sunday for premier league title clash with league leaders Liverpool.
Eden Hazard is also a doubt for the trip to Anfield;the midfielder travelled with Chelsea squad to Madrid,but was not named in the starting lineup or on the bench .He suffered a calf injury in the quarter-final second leg win against PSG.
Samuel Eto'o was ruled out of the draw with Atletico with a knee injury.
Wednesday 23 April 2014
Fans attack
Lola Omotayo Okoye Replies Hater who Blames Her for Psquare's Separation:
A lot of people are beginning to blame and lash out at Peter Okoye's wife,Lola Omotayo for her unforgivable contribution to the separation of Square.Despite the conflict going on , Lola Omotayo seems to be insensitive to the situation as she went ahead to post a picture of her son Cameron and rapper phyno few hours ago with @phynofino.Fans atacked he after on her Facebook page,calling her all sorts of names like" bad wife" blaming her for the conflict.well,Lola who seemed to be less concern abut the critics replied with" I think SILENCE is the best answer".
A lot of people are beginning to blame and lash out at Peter Okoye's wife,Lola Omotayo for her unforgivable contribution to the separation of Square.Despite the conflict going on , Lola Omotayo seems to be insensitive to the situation as she went ahead to post a picture of her son Cameron and rapper phyno few hours ago with @phynofino.Fans atacked he after on her Facebook page,calling her all sorts of names like" bad wife" blaming her for the conflict.well,Lola who seemed to be less concern abut the critics replied with" I think SILENCE is the best answer".
Psquare's Separation
Psquare Separation Saga!!Paul Okoye finally speak out . Paul Okoye of Psquare has finally spoken out on the reports that the duo are in a verge of breaking up it was reported four days ago that top Nigerian singers,Pquare made up of twin brothers.Peter and Paul Okoye are parting way after so many years of being together,singing together and literally doing everything together due to irreconcilable differences.Although some felt it was some kind of publicity stunt,others doubted the authenticity of the report, elder brother/manager,Jude Okoye tweeted saying:After 10 years it's over.Am done".Paul Okoye took to his Facebook page to say a prayer for his family at this trying time.For real,if it could really be over between this twins what of people that are not twins but teamed together in order to make wave in the industry like Bracket (yori yori)?Unbelievable!Paul that can't do without peter and peter that can't do without Paul have finally separated
Too bad!
Too bad!
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